Partnership is just business without intimacy. Has your love relationship turned into a business contract? Sure, you can work, feed the children, and talk about your problems with your lover, but is that really enough? I know that most of us want more than technical support from our life partner.
It gets back to the old saying, “Do you live to work or work to live?” Your love relationship should not be reduced to a chore list that you share with your lover just to get through the week.
Where's the passion? Where's the yearning? I am talking about the kind of love that you crave more than food. I mean a hunger for the nectar of love that connects lovers even when they are apart. Remembering the look in your lover's eyes, the smell of your lover's hair or taste of your lover's sweat. Love like this is possible for those who value it and are willing to step outside their old limitations. It is a matter of further opening your heart. It is a place of vulnerability, compassion, honesty, and selflessness. Society doesn't teach us this kind of simple and profound love. However, it is possible.
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